Never Give Up by John Rombo, Dubai, Middle East

Dear Koare Konda Folks,
 
"Giving up" in anything that we think of doing is a failure in itself, fueled by the inner self.  It just shows how weak your inner self is in terms of adopting to challenges in life.  Infact the more challenges you face in your life's journey, the more knowledgeable and adept you become.  Your minset, ways of perceiving the social world changes as well.  It gives you more edge for you to think harder.  You don't have to be super intelligent at first to make the move and see minute changes in your functional ability.  You just need to have the urge to try harder, work harder and see if you can succeed through change.  However, sometimes you do not realise the subtle changes that take effect in yourself.  Small things matter alot and do count in life in order for you to achieve bigger and wider things.  When one flauts, it's simply because of not seeing that same thing from different angles and perspectives.  It is the inner self that must be determined to stand against the odds, thunder, tide, waves and wind into order to see change and achievement.  That self is you and only yourself.  I did go through so much struggles in my journey in life, I still am, but one thing that keeps me moving forward rather than resorting to lagging is my inner self.  I am still struggling for ends meet.  But when I reflect on my individual journey, I have failed more things than what I have achieved.  As the saying goes; "EVERYBODY IS SOMEBODY".  That means do not put yourself down, you do have so much inner unexplored world and system that can make enormous difference in your life as well as for others. You are somebody in the eyes of supreme God and yourself.  You are somebody in the eyes of your own family, you children, you wife, your brothers and sisters.  This is simply because they view you as the becon of their survival and success.  Without you they see them being 100 miles away to reach where you are, or they might not even make it to the football field, which gives them certain degree of hope for their own success.  That means, Koare Konda folks, you are somebody in the eyes of your own family, community and villages.  Do not be fooled when someon, may be of higher social standing puts you down or uses some form of derogatory words against you.  Do not back off, though that may be an insult and quite embarassing, it is another form of inner strength and challenge for you to grow deeper and wider.  Once in my life I was told the following words by a Koarean youngster out of his own greed and frustration and expressed on me; "YU TISA NATIN".  All these years I have put on record this gentle man's words.  It went right into myself, which eventually turned into particles of accolade, turned into particles of facing the truth and reality and dance to the song and beat of the music, turned into particles of change.  Those were my inner strengths, buidling on from my experiences in life, I have also accepted good advise which I thought were useful and binding.  On the journey I discarded what I considered to be particles of failure and doom.  Life is not easy.  It is hard, and is a journey still to this day.  
 
So folks do no faulter, do not whither, rather see challenges as opportunities and think positive and face the truth and work hard.  That's your vehicle to take you to paradise.  Find below are some prominent people in the world who were considered to be failures but through sheer hardwork, combined with their development in intelligence, they succeed in their individual achievements and life. Let's have a look at those examples now;
 
"Colonel Sanders had the construction of a new road put him out of business in 1967. He went to over 1,000 places trying to sell his chicken recipe before he found a buyer interested in his 11 herbs and spices. Seven years later, at the age of 75, Colonel Sanders sold his fried chicken company for a finger-lickin' $15 million!" Yes, you can! Never give up believing in yourself. Whenever you doubt yourself, remember the many amazing stories below of failure being turned into major success by amazing people we all know and respect. Every one of us can make a big difference if we only choose to believe in ourselves and never give up. Please help to spread these inspiring stories to all you know so that both individually and collectively we might more fully live our awesome potential. And you have a great day!

 

Inspirational Stories Remind Us to Never Give Up

Henry Ford failed and went broke five times before he finally succeeded.

Beethoven handled the violin awkwardly and preferred playing his own compositions instead of improving his technique. His teacher called him hopeless as a composer.

Colonel Sanders had the construction of a new road put him out of business in 1967. He went to over 1,000 places trying to sell his chicken recipe before he found a buyer interested in his 11 herbs and spices. Seven years later, at the age of 75, Colonel Sanders sold his fried chicken company for a finger-lickin' $15 million!

Walt Disney was fired by a newspaper editor for lack of ideas. Disney also went bankrupt several times before he built Disneyland.

Charles Darwin, father of the theory of evolution, gave up a medical career and was told by his father, "You care for nothing but shooting, dogs, and rat catching." In his autobiography, Darwin wrote, "I was considered by my father, a very ordinary boy, rather below the common standard in intellect.

Albert Einstein did not speak until he was four years old and didn't read until he was seven. His teacher described him as "mentally slow, unsociable and adrift forever in his foolish dreams." He was expelled and refused admittance to Zurich Polytechnic School. The University of Bern turned down his Ph.D. dissertation as being irrelevant and fanciful.

The movie Star Wars was rejected by every movie studio in Hollywood before 20th-Century Fox finally produced it. It went on to be one of the largest grossing movies in film history.

Louis Pasteur was only a mediocre pupil in undergraduate studies and ranked 15 out of 22 in chemistry.

When NFL running back Herschel Walker was in junior high school, he wanted to play football, but the coach told him he was too small. He advised young Herschel to go out for track instead. Never one to give up, he ignored the coach's advice and began an intensive training program to build himself up. Only a few years later, Herschel Walker won the Heisman trophy.

When General Douglas MacArthur applied for admission to West Point, he was turned down, not once but twice. But he tried a third time, was accepted and marched into the history books.

After Fred Astaire's first screen test, the memo from the testing director of MGM, dated 1933, said, "Can't act! Slightly bald! Can dance a little!" Astaire kept that memo over the fireplace in his Beverly Hills home.

The father of the sculptor Rodin [The Thinker Statue] said, "I have an idiot for a son." Described as the worst pupil in the school, Rodin failed three times to secure admittance to the school of art. His uncle called him uneducable.

Babe Ruth, considered by sports historians to be the greatest athlete of all time and famous for setting the home run record, also holds the record for strikeouts.

Eighteen publishers turned down Richard Bach's Jonathan Livingston Seagull, before Macmillan finally published it in 1970. By 1975 it had sold more than seven million copies in the U.S. alone.

Margaret Mitchell's classic Gone with the Wind was turned down by more than twenty-five publishers.

Richard Hooker worked for seven years on his humorous war novel, M*A*S*H, only to have it rejected by 21 publishers before Morrow decided to publish it. It became a runaway bestseller, spawning a blockbusting movie and highly successful television series.

When the first Chicken Soup for the Soul book was completed, it was turned down by thirty-three publishers in New York and another ninety at the American Booksellers Association convention in Anaheim, California, before Health Communications, Inc., finally agreed to publish it. The major New York publishers said, "It is too nicey-nice" and "Nobody wants to read a book of short little stories." Since that time more than 8 million copies of the original Chicken Soup for the Soul book have been sold. The series, which has grown to thirty-two titles, in thirty-one languages, has sold more than 53 million copies.

In 1954, Jimmy Denny, manager of the Grand Ole Opry, fired Elvis Presley after one performance. He told Presley, "You ain't goin' nowhere… son. You ought to go back to drivin' a truck." Elvis Presley went on to become the most popular singer in America.

Dr. Seuss' first children's book, And to Think That I Saw it on Mulberry Street, was rejected by twenty-seven publishers. The twenty-eighth publisher, Vanguard press, sold six million copies of the book.

Never give up believing in yourself!!!

 

 from A Cup of Chicken Soup for the Soul by Jack Canfield and Mark V. Hansen

 

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